EDUCATIONAL LEADERSHIP
This is what I like to call what I have learned after years of professional experience, research, and study, and my own experience as a mother that optimizes the results of the educational process.
After more than 27 years directing an early childhood education center, researching and implementing the latest neuroscientific and pedagogical innovations, and working with families as an educational and family coach, I want to define several important terms and concepts so that you can exercise your leadership as a parent.
- EDUCATIONAL PROCESS: Yes, it is a process, this means that it will not be immediate but will require some time and this will depend on variables such as age and personality of your child. Age and personality of yours, personal moments of both of you and the family, as well as the vital and social environment of both of you. It is not the same trying to get our children to sleep well if they are 6 months old than if they are two years old, if I am a sleepyhead, or if I have not slept for days because I have just had their brother. As such a process needs time and depends on variables, it will be very important to take all these variables into account to make an estimate of the duration of the educational process for a given behavior and not feel too frustrated.
2. TIME: It is not a matter of blaming ourselves for not having all the time we would like to have with our children, but it is a matter of knowing how much time we have and in what conditions of fatigue we are going to reach it so that we can establish on that basis the behavior or behaviors we want to achieve in our children. If I have very little time and I get home tired, the key to success is to select the most important priority, that way it will be feasible and the well-being that we will feel will motivate us for the following educational objectives.
3. BASIC KNOWLEDGE OF MY CHILD’S EVOLUTIONARY MOMENT: Neuroscience offers us a unique knowledge of how our children’s brains work and develop according to their age. Knowing the basic aspects will help us to establish educational objectives that are viable in reality and that will lead us to success.
4. OBSERVATION: Observe how our child is, what he likes, what makes him happy, what makes him angry, and what calms him down.
5. ESTABLISH A REALISTIC EDUCATIONAL ROUTE SHEET: With all the previous data plus all the tools that you discover through the educational coaching sessions, establish realistic and feasible educational objectives. In this way, we will feel our leadership as parents and our children will have the best educational guide for their best growth.
“TURN EDUCATION INTO YOUR HAPPINESS”.